7 Shocking Facts about People with Disabilities!

7 Shocking Facts about People with Disabilities!

  1. People with disabilities were not born to inspire people without disabilities!
    • Despite what Hollywood and Facebook might want you to think, that child down the street from you who just figured out a way to circumvent a step with their wheelchair didn’t do it to encourage you on your way to work. They did it because no one cared enough to build a ramp.
  2. They can fall in love and raise children!
    • This might be the MOST shocking fact on this list to some people. Diagnosis does not determine who a person will be. Some people with disabilities want to have children, some parents with children become disabled. Diagnosis does not determine desire.
  3. They, in fact, are not aliens! They are humans with a range of thoughts and feelings about their own bodies and lives.
    • Autonomy is not reserved for only those labeled “able-bodied”. We are much more than a community service project for somebody.
  4. No two people, even with the same diagnosis, are the same! They have unique opinions!
    • Do you think differently from other people with your same color hair? We do too. We also all have different, loves, joys and traumas. Just like you! Isn’t humanity grand?
  5. They do not believe equal access means socialism! (Well, maybe some do, who am I to say what all people with disabilities think?)
    • I have blown people’s minds with this one, I just know it. Sometimes, like I don’t know, I do not feel like driving my scooter up two wooden planks next to a dumpster to get into one of the nicest restaurants in Nashville, because no one ever thought when building that a person with a disability would want to or could afford a steak dinner, I mean if you wanna give me a free steak I’ll take it, buuuuuut not my goal.
  6. They come in ALL shapes and sizes AND colors. Like you know how many varieties of peeps there are? There are more flavors of people with disabilities out there! 
    • Repeat with me here. People with disabilities are not all white. They are not all Americans. They speak different languages. They are rich, they are poor, they like musicals or they prefer Vin Diesel. This is about to turn into a Dr. Seuss book.
  7. They are systematically oppressed and discriminated against, and often ignored by humans of all different political leanings. Liberal, conservative, green, or libertarian, we are still stuck on the curb unable to find a ramp to join your parade or march. 
    • There are countries and cultures in the world that practice systematic elimination of people with disabilities. Killing infants, just because they are undesirable. And billions of people don’t bat an eye. Let that sink in. Diagnosis DOES NOT DETERMINE WORTH. Stop letting us believe that we are worthless, or that our worth depends on how we have inspired you.

Ableism is rampant, y’all. Please take the time to hear our voices, our lives are depending on it. 

What Can We Do For Your Church?

Here is a short list as a sample of our services available to you and your church:

  • A training session for staff and volunteers on how to be more inclusive and welcoming to people with disabilities
  • Consultations with Children and Youth ministries to create “buddy programs”
  • Consultation and evaluation of property, worship services and church events to highlight concerns and navigate solutions
  • Consultation with church leadership to evaluate systems and policies in regards to accessibility and inclusion
  • Speaking engagement/preaching focusing on theology through the lens of disability
  • An awareness event expressing the needs of people with disabilities in the local community not limited to but including employment, education, housing, relationships and media representation.
  • Speaking Engagement for congregation or Youth sharing my personal testimony and reflecting on God’s remarkable healing and inclusion for all. Using my story to help audiences find their own voice and God-given potential to change the world around them.

100 X 100

Hopefully, you have arrived on this pages after watching our brief video detailing our latest fundraising campaign that we are calling, “100X100”.

Our concept is this:

To meet our 2017 needs through a grassroots effort that utilizes the partnerships of churches, businesses and organizations. I believe it is these entities that are in most need of Break The Roof’s influence. I believe this fundraising initiative can be the opportunity to inspire vast change in culture around the Nation. For Break The Roof’s message of inclusion and equality to stick we need those in positions of major influence to become invested. What better way to start investing than financially? 

If 100 churches, businesses and organizations give 100$ each we will meet our need of 10,000$ for 2017 to operate.

Any and all fundraising for Break The Roof goes directly into operating costs. No monies go into anyone’s pockets but rather are used to keep us running.

Here are some of the ways 10,000$ will be used in 2017:

  • Video resources for advocacy
  • Branching out into our own 501(c)3
  • Travel costs for seminars/conferences
  • Funding for awareness efforts locally and nationally
  • Offsetting personal costs and expenses
  • Technology costs to create videos and resources
  • Curriculum creation and research

What we need from you:

So what we need you to do is comment here or back on our Facebook post with a church, business or organization that you think may be interested in partnering with us.

I will be contacting all of the organizations, but it would be great for me to be able to start conversations by saying, “Hello, I was referred to your church by (Your name Here)”

If you have any more questions please do not hesitate to ask. I can be reached at mattpcurcio@gmail.com

Much Love,

Lets start breaking roofs together.

-Matt

Learning to Walk…Again

At the bottom of this blog you will see our latest video. A mini-documentary covering the four-month recovery process of our Founder, Matt Curcio.

We decided to write a blog to correspond to the latest video because while the video has content we want to take some time to explain the point of the “mini-documentary”.

First and foremost, we want you to understand that the intention of this video is NOT to inspire people in the vain of how many videos pertaining to disability defer to highlighting.

If you walk or roll away encouraged by what you see in the video that is beautiful, but the goal of this video is to make the disabled life more accessible to those who are not disabled. 

Break The Roof and Matt aren’t calling for pity or sympathy for the struggles people with disabilities experience.

What we desire is two-fold:

  1. If you are not disabled, we want you to gain understanding, to have an inside look on something that is sometimes too uncomfortable to ask questions about. Watch the video and hopefully some of your questions will be answered, but more than having your curiosities quelled take this chance to grow in understanding. Look into the face of the other and take a step forward in seeing. We are all human. The disabled life is our reality, so please stop treating us like a tragedy.
  2. If you ARE disabled on any spectrum. Be encouraged. For Matt, breaking his leg had always been his greatest fear. And what is worse it happened in an extremely mundane situation. Moments like this want to crush our pursuit of independence. We know that disability manifestation is as vast as the sea, so your independence may not be in walking or driving, but there are aspects of your life that give you freedom. Do not rest in fear, depression and hopelessness. Find your independence, what ever that might look like and never give up on it. And if you aren’t quite sure what independence looks like for you, reach out to us we would love to help you discern that.

Enjoy the mini-documentary. Share it and pass it along. There are unspoken messages in this video that the world needs to hear.

-Matt

 

Donation Update

Just a quick update!

You can now directly donate to Break The Roof here on our website! Our Paypal donation button is secure as can be and will allow you to donate directly to us!

Thank you so much for your partnership. We are so excited to be bringing you all more updates soon!

-Matt

 

Announcement

Dear Friends,

My life has taken a lot of interesting twists and turns over the years and I was hoping to share with you about my latest adventure. I am now living in Nashville, TN pursuing what I consider one of my greatest life callings. I was just thirteen years old when I opened scripture and read a verse in Proverbs that I have never been able to shake. The essence of the verse is basically: Be a voice to the voiceless. I recall reading this and feeling a metaphorical and literal rush of life and breath fill my lungs.

I knew then, as I still do today, that my desire and what I refer to as my calling is to speak up for those who are often forgotten and ignored in this world. Who though? Who are the voiceless? For me, in that moment I recognized my own muteness in culture and in the Church because of my disability.

The last twelve years have only fortified this calling. I have traveled from New Jersey to Philadelphia to Colorado to Texas and now to Nashville gaining experience and understanding how I fit into this great tapestry of life. Through some clearly God-ordained connections and, honestly, miracles I now find myself in the middle of one of my greatest dreams becoming realized.

With the help of some creative friends and family I have begun a non-profit disability advocacy group called Break The Roof. The name is based off of the story found in Mark 2. Break The Roof’s mission statement is clear:

To create a culture in and out of the Church that is accessible and inclusive to people of all abilities.

Thanks to the partnership of The After Sunday Project, inc. Break The Roof is already recognized as a 501c3 non-profit program. We will be recognized as a program of The After Sunday Project, inc. until we can raise enough funds to apply for our own non-profit status. Until that time, we will continue to work on our large agenda of projects and programs that are already in production.

We fully expect our reach to become national, but I personally hope to spend considerable time working with the communities that have helped to make me who I am today. I am so incredibly excited about all that God is doing through Break The Roof, already! I am even more excited to extend to you the opportunity to partner with us at the ground level and watch what is built in the coming weeks, months and years.

Would you prayerfully consider partnering with Break The Roof by making a MONTHLY or ONE-TIME donation of $20, $40 or any other amount? Every gift will make a difference.

If so, hop over to my contact page and reach out on how you would like to partner. Or head over to The After Sunday Project: Donate and include in the “special instructions” that your donation is for Break The Roof.

I am so excited to share with you what has been put on my heart and the good work Break The Roof will be doing!

Sincerely,

Matt Curcio

Founder Break The Roof