100 X 100

Hopefully, you have arrived on this pages after watching our brief video detailing our latest fundraising campaign that we are calling, “100X100”.

Our concept is this:

To meet our 2017 needs through a grassroots effort that utilizes the partnerships of churches, businesses and organizations. I believe it is these entities that are in most need of Break The Roof’s influence. I believe this fundraising initiative can be the opportunity to inspire vast change in culture around the Nation. For Break The Roof’s message of inclusion and equality to stick we need those in positions of major influence to become invested. What better way to start investing than financially? 

If 100 churches, businesses and organizations give 100$ each we will meet our need of 10,000$ for 2017 to operate.

Any and all fundraising for Break The Roof goes directly into operating costs. No monies go into anyone’s pockets but rather are used to keep us running.

Here are some of the ways 10,000$ will be used in 2017:

  • Video resources for advocacy
  • Branching out into our own 501(c)3
  • Travel costs for seminars/conferences
  • Funding for awareness efforts locally and nationally
  • Offsetting personal costs and expenses
  • Technology costs to create videos and resources
  • Curriculum creation and research

What we need from you:

So what we need you to do is comment here or back on our Facebook post with a church, business or organization that you think may be interested in partnering with us.

I will be contacting all of the organizations, but it would be great for me to be able to start conversations by saying, “Hello, I was referred to your church by (Your name Here)”

If you have any more questions please do not hesitate to ask. I can be reached at mattpcurcio@gmail.com

Much Love,

Lets start breaking roofs together.

-Matt

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Learning to Walk…Again

At the bottom of this blog you will see our latest video. A mini-documentary covering the four-month recovery process of our Founder, Matt Curcio.

We decided to write a blog to correspond to the latest video because while the video has content we want to take some time to explain the point of the “mini-documentary”.

First and foremost, we want you to understand that the intention of this video is NOT to inspire people in the vain of how many videos pertaining to disability defer to highlighting.

If you walk or roll away encouraged by what you see in the video that is beautiful, but the goal of this video is to make the disabled life more accessible to those who are not disabled. 

Break The Roof and Matt aren’t calling for pity or sympathy for the struggles people with disabilities experience.

What we desire is two-fold:

  1. If you are not disabled, we want you to gain understanding, to have an inside look on something that is sometimes too uncomfortable to ask questions about. Watch the video and hopefully some of your questions will be answered, but more than having your curiosities quelled take this chance to grow in understanding. Look into the face of the other and take a step forward in seeing. We are all human. The disabled life is our reality, so please stop treating us like a tragedy.
  2. If you ARE disabled on any spectrum. Be encouraged. For Matt, breaking his leg had always been his greatest fear. And what is worse it happened in an extremely mundane situation. Moments like this want to crush our pursuit of independence. We know that disability manifestation is as vast as the sea, so your independence may not be in walking or driving, but there are aspects of your life that give you freedom. Do not rest in fear, depression and hopelessness. Find your independence, what ever that might look like and never give up on it. And if you aren’t quite sure what independence looks like for you, reach out to us we would love to help you discern that.

Enjoy the mini-documentary. Share it and pass it along. There are unspoken messages in this video that the world needs to hear.

-Matt

 

On Disability and Inclusion in the Church

What follows is an edited transcript from a short session our founder ran at the recent “TASH conference” in Nashville:

As I said at the beginning of this panel, my name is Matt Curcio. The capital letter “C” church has been a part of my life since I was about eleven years old. I have worked in churches, volunteered with ministries, gone to seminary and surrounded myself with Christian fellowship.

While I have been active in many different churches over the years, I have more often than not felt like I was on the outside looking in. But then again y’all are aware that there are still many obstacles and barriers to inclusion, which is why we are gathered here today.

One of the questions I pondered when writing this all down is, what exactly would it look like to be meaningfully included in a faith community?

I want to start with what it does not look like. It doesn’t look like people avoiding eye contact. It doesn’t look like being forgotten about or minimized to just the state of my physical body.

Not being meaningfully included is like the scene in Mark 2. Many of you here know the story of the paralyzed man who was lowered through a roof to meet Jesus.

Something I didn’t realize until recently is that it wasn’t steps blocking the man from meeting Jesus and being a part of something world changing. In fact, scripture clearly states it was a crowd blocking him. A crowd of people, unaware and uninterested blocking this man from a potential that was unimaginable.

For me to feel accepted and welcomed and desired is when a few of those people in that crowd become a community. They stop standing in the way and work with me to get into that house to see what all the commotion is about.

To be meaningfully included means ultimately for others to see my potential when I only see my brokenness. It is to have my name asked and to have my story heard. To be meaningfully included is to be treated like a human.

While for me there are still many instances where stairs are a major obstacle to me being meaningfully included, to me the complacent and disinterested attitudes are the biggest barriers.

It is a rare occasion wherein programs, lessons and buildings are planned with disabilities in mind. Stages are even more rarely designed with the thought that someone with a disability would ever lead or speak on it.

In fact even when I was ministering to students, it was an afterthought to me! I’d plan the lesson, write the illustration and map out the activity just to realize I didn’t even take into consideration my own limitations. How backwards is that? I don’t think that is what Paul meant by being everything to everyone.

But, its not all bad, because if there wasn’t hope I probably wouldn’t be up here speaking. I have been meaningfully included. One instance was so powerful it is still shaking up my life even though it occurred over two years ago

I was working at a church in San Antonio doing full time college ministry. I knew my wheelhouse. College kids were easy. They liked video games, coffee and long talks about Jesus. No problem, I excel at all those things. But there was a Youth Director at this church that became a fast friend. We’d grill and watch every sport under the sun. It wasn’t long, maybe a few weeks after my arrival that he began inviting me to come spend time with him and the middle schoolers.

I was sick to my stomach when he first invited me. I smiled and in my most gracious voice declined. On the inside I was screaming “Dude are you out of your mind? Me, with a bunch of wild middle schoolers, running around being hyper and active and fun? You DO realize I use a scooter right? I don’t play sports, I can’t do this, I can’t do that. This is a disaster waiting to happen.”

The Youth Director then proceeded to invite me every single week for the next month. He promised food and fellowship. Finally after a month of invitations I caved in to his persistence. Nerves a wreck, I showed up and ate hot dogs and talked about Maundy Thursday with ten eighth grade boys.

I thought I would just have to make it through those two hours and then never have to hear his offer again once I explained how I’m not a fit to work with youth.

If y’all could have seen his smug grin when he watched me fall in love with working with those kids. Two years later I’m obviously no longer at that church, but I still get weekly texts from the many high school and middle schoolers. I had no idea that potential was in me.

I had no idea that there was a gifting and strength to my story that could connect to kids that I had grown up unable to connect with.

Side note: Kids, no matter the age, love sitting in rollie chairs and holding onto the back of scooters like a train. Extra side note: get a parent’s permission and have the kids sign a waiver before you do something like that.

But a faith community saw it in me when I didn’t see it. And in this scenario once I got inside the house and saw what the crowd was staring at, it changed my world.

What I want to leave you with today is just a few pieces of advice:

  1. Invitation is at the heart of faith communities, do not be afraid to invite those with disabilities to serve, and to share their strengths. Which of course means you need to invite them into your life so that you may get to see their potential yourself.
  2. This is off topic, but I feel like it needs to be shared. Disability is draining. It consumes energy, health and finances, goodness is it expensive to be disabled. I will be the first to say that I do not want to be seen as a charity case, but those I trust, who know me authentically and intimately and not just as someone to be served. I am grateful to share my struggles and needs with them. It is not easy to support and invest in someone with a disability. But the best things in life are never easy. Get to know people’s needs, but first get to know them.
  3. Finally, become a community. Lay down the simplicity of being a crowd. Make your plans with an array of abilities in mind. If you work with youth, you already know not EVERY kid likes dodgeball. If you are preaching, hopefully it’s not news to you that it doesn’t take having a disability or learning difference to lose focus on what is being said. Every obstacle has an accommodation. And

Maybe accommodations shouldn’t be an overwhelming word, maybe it shouldn’t be such a dirty word.

But an opportunity to let your creativity run wild, to try something new (I know new can be scary), but what if by accommodating for a few you give way to something more potent, and more world changing than ever before?
Thank you.

Donation Update

Just a quick update!

You can now directly donate to Break The Roof here on our website! Our Paypal donation button is secure as can be and will allow you to donate directly to us!

Thank you so much for your partnership. We are so excited to be bringing you all more updates soon!

-Matt

 

Announcement

Dear Friends,

My life has taken a lot of interesting twists and turns over the years and I was hoping to share with you about my latest adventure. I am now living in Nashville, TN pursuing what I consider one of my greatest life callings. I was just thirteen years old when I opened scripture and read a verse in Proverbs that I have never been able to shake. The essence of the verse is basically: Be a voice to the voiceless. I recall reading this and feeling a metaphorical and literal rush of life and breath fill my lungs.

I knew then, as I still do today, that my desire and what I refer to as my calling is to speak up for those who are often forgotten and ignored in this world. Who though? Who are the voiceless? For me, in that moment I recognized my own muteness in culture and in the Church because of my disability.

The last twelve years have only fortified this calling. I have traveled from New Jersey to Philadelphia to Colorado to Texas and now to Nashville gaining experience and understanding how I fit into this great tapestry of life. Through some clearly God-ordained connections and, honestly, miracles I now find myself in the middle of one of my greatest dreams becoming realized.

With the help of some creative friends and family I have begun a non-profit disability advocacy group called Break The Roof. The name is based off of the story found in Mark 2. Break The Roof’s mission statement is clear:

To create a culture in and out of the Church that is accessible and inclusive to people of all abilities.

Thanks to the partnership of The After Sunday Project, inc. Break The Roof is already recognized as a 501c3 non-profit program. We will be recognized as a program of The After Sunday Project, inc. until we can raise enough funds to apply for our own non-profit status. Until that time, we will continue to work on our large agenda of projects and programs that are already in production.

We fully expect our reach to become national, but I personally hope to spend considerable time working with the communities that have helped to make me who I am today. I am so incredibly excited about all that God is doing through Break The Roof, already! I am even more excited to extend to you the opportunity to partner with us at the ground level and watch what is built in the coming weeks, months and years.

Would you prayerfully consider partnering with Break The Roof by making a MONTHLY or ONE-TIME donation of $20, $40 or any other amount? Every gift will make a difference.

If so, hop over to my contact page and reach out on how you would like to partner. Or head over to The After Sunday Project: Donate and include in the “special instructions” that your donation is for Break The Roof.

I am so excited to share with you what has been put on my heart and the good work Break The Roof will be doing!

Sincerely,

Matt Curcio

Founder Break The Roof